His and Hers Wedding Fashion
Written by Jennifer Garry Monday, 26 July 2010 18:00
So often the real meaning of a wedding gets lost in the planning process. You pay so much attention to the details (How many chairs do we have to rent? Does that shade of purple match the bridesmaids’ dresses exactly? Do the groomsmen know they’re not allowed to wear sunglasses during the ceremony?) that you almost forget what the day should really be about: you and your soon-to-be spouse.
With that in mind, I thought it would be fun to focus on details that relate to the two of you. Very often, the groom’s look plays off the colors of the flowers or the bridesmaids’ dresses. But why not play off each other instead? I found a few fun little pieces that create a cohesive look for the bride and groom.
Play with patterns! A striped tie makes any suit look classic and a little preppy. This 100% silk tie from Rabbit Stop is no exception. It adds a hint of sophistication to the look. Once you put it next to this fun clutch by Amarie however, it becomes much less traditional and much more playful. The black and white play off of each other sort of sweetly, while the zebra print and the strawberry margarita pink bow bring an unexpected punch of wildness. Together, they add a fun, cohesive touch to your photos.
Another way to weave your looks together is by wearing similar metals. Brenda’s Expressions’ gorgeous, intricately designed, golden headband adds sparkle and a wow factor to any bride’s look. To have your groom play off of that, have him wear a cool gold accessory too. These incredible steampunk cufflinks by New York City-based artist edmdesigns are a fantastic option. Skillfully made and a total conversation piece, the champagne color of the cufflinks would play off of the blush silk in the headband so beautifully.
Infusing a motif that you’re using everywhere (say on your invitations, programs, centerpieces, etc.) into your looks is another great way to not only bring cohesiveness to your looks, but to the whole day. The bright pops of color found in peacock feathers are a lively way to brighten things up. Peacock Pixys makes this beautiful bridal hair fascinator. I love how the white feathers and the peacock feather work together so flawlessly. The pearl and crystal jewel at the center adds the perfect amount of femininity. Pair this beauty with Nyjole Jewellry’s more masculine boutonniere (which, by the way, is also offered as a hair fascinator) and you have a winning combo! I love the addition of the black and blue feathers on the boutonniere. It would look stunning on just about any lapel!
While we’re on the subject of feathers, I’ve been seeing them everywhere lately (from invitations to jewelry and everywhere in between). Dreamy and possessing a certain fairy tale-like quality, they make perfect sense to add to a wedding. This incredible 20s-inspired purse is stunning and totally unique when the world seems to be full of so many boxy, white satin bridal purses. Pair it with this boutonniere by Pixel and Hank and you will be one super stylish pair. Both pieces manage to be both chic and whimsical—which means the two of you will too!
There are so many ways to unite your looks! The few I’ve listed here are just the beginning. So hunt around a little on your own and find some fun pieces that bring your looks together. It’s a really fun way of saying that the two of you are ready to become one!
Jennifer Garry is a writer and accessories designer living in Westchester, NY with her husband and daughter. When she's not up to her ears in kiddie crafts, you can find her swimming in a pool of beads. Her obsessions include tea, chocolate, sarcasm and her daughter's giggle--any of which can be used to coax her from her little jewelry-making fantasy world.