As a bride-to-be you have a lot of correspondence to send. From formal wedding invitations, to bridal shower invites all the way to the thank-you cards that wrap things up, you and your Post Man should become bosom buds! Depending on your and your fiance's style as a couple, the mail that you send can be anything from formal to quirky.

The best thing about incorporating Do It Yourself into your wedding is that it allows for your personal style to shine through. And it terms of wedding correspondence, Save the Date cards are a great way to let that run wild. In scouring the web for some fun DIY Save the Date cards, the idea that I was most struck with was making magnets!

Let me tell you a little something about my darling boyfriend: he knows when Christmas and St. Patrick's Day are. He's fuzzy on his mother's birthday and we decided long ago to celebrate a spontaneous anniversary. So when his cousin sent him a Save the Date card for a wedding last spring, I immediately took the card and practically glued it to my fridge.
Why not save date-impaired people (and their girlfriends!) the extra step by sending that Save the Date card as a magnet already?

This is an extremely easy craft, and for those of you who are limited on time you can also have magnets made for you (more on that later).

Supplies:

 

• A cute photo of you and your fiance
• Paper
• Scissors
• Sheets of adhesive magnets (3.5" x 2" is a good size!)

Directions:

There are lots of ways to vary this one and have it come out with your personal mark it on. If you plan ahead, you can even have your engagement portraits photographer in on the craft!

Take a photo of you and your fiance. If you can find a location with a cute weathered or vintage sign that can be Photoshopped with your wedding info onto it, bonus (this is where your engagement portrait photographer could come in)! If not, just an adorable photo will do.

Stick the photo onto a piece of the adhesive magnet sheet. Now getting the wedding into onto the magnet is the fun part! I created some cutesy magnetic poetry-style words and glued them to the photo surface. For the words I used Times New Roman, size 19 font. After printing out the words, I cut them out and adhered them to appropriately sized pieces of magnets and voila!

If you don't dig on magnetic poetry, you can also find some very cute digital photo frames on the internet. Hp.com has a several cute ones you can use, and they will even print your photo in them!

Not feeling very crafty? Sites like Magnet.com let couples to create their own Save the Date magnets. You send your wedding information, photos, and any artwork and their graphic artists design your magnets. Pretty sweet!

The DIY Stats:

Cost – Expect to spend about $30 on 100 3.5" x 2" adhesive magnet sheets. Use that figure to calculate an approximate cost based on your guest list.

Difficulty – Another very easy one.

Time – Depending on how you decide to design your magnet, time spent could vary. Once you have a design ready, each magnet can be done in a few minutes.

Fiance Friendliness

- This could be a fun craft to do working as a team. If you wanted to go all out with the magnetic poetry theme, this could become a great afternoon of creating silly love poems together for your Save the Date magnets!

Jen Kiaba is a photographer and burgeoning crafter who lives in Rhinebeck, NY with her lovely boyfriend, two crazy cats and an adorable basset hound. When her hands aren't covered in tacky glue, she specializes in taking romantic portraits of happy couples in the Hudson Valley!

Ten Centerpiece Giveaway Games & Ideas For Your Wedding

Most brides invest a lot of time (and money) coming up with gorgeous floral arrangements or centerpieces to grace the tables at the wedding reception. The right décor elements really tie together your colors and the theme of your wedding.

But what do you do with those centerpieces when the wedding is done?

I doubt you'll want to take home 10-15 huge floral arrangements that will be wilted when you get back from the honeymoon. And you probably don't want your great aunts getting into a fist fight over who gets to take home the votive candles.

I've assembled some of our favorite centerpiece giveaway ideas that you can use for your wedding to avert a Fight Club outbreak after the last song.

1) Penny Under the Plate

Ask your caterer to hide a penny (or a sticker, poker chip, or cute photo of you two) under a single bread plate at each table. Have your entertainer ask your guests to lift their plates and announce that whoever has a penny under their plate gets to take home the centerpiece.

PROS: It's super simple and easy to understand.

CONS: It's not especially fun or suspenseful. You also need to remember to give your caterer the pennies or assign and trusted friend to place them at every table.

2) Pass the Object with Variations

Have your entertainer ask each table to pass a napkin (spoon, dollar bill or other object) hot potato style around the table while the music plays. When the music stops, whoever has the object gets to take home the centerpiece.

My Favorite: I like to give this simple pass the napkin giveaway idea a little twist. We tell the guests that the bride and groom will be giving away the centerpieces, "but we're going to have a little fun first." I ask guests to pass the napkin several times, each time requesting that the person who has the napkin do something cute, fun and/or slightly embarrassing. The person who has the napkin in the last round gets to take home the centerpiece.

Dollar Bill Variation: This version uses a dollar bill instead of a napkin. Have your entertainer ask guests to pass the dollar. Everyone expects that the person who has the dollar gets the centerpiece. Instead, fake them out and give the centerpiece to the person who lent the dollar, or allow them to choose between getting their dollar back and taking the centerpiece.

Lotto Ticket Variation: Ask guests to pass a lotto ticket placed at each table. Whoever has the lotto ticket when the music stops may choose to keep the (unscratched) ticket or take home the centerpiece.

Wrapped Gift: Pass a wrapped gift around the table. Whoever has the gift when the music stops can choose between keeping the gift...before opening it...or taking home the centerpiece.

Task Assignments: When your entertainer has your guests start passing the object, toy with them a bit before awarding the centerpiece. Perhaps the first person is the designated bartender for the table. Maybe the second person is in charge of taking all the pictures on the disposable camera at the table.

PROS: Passing the object is fun and suspenseful. When skillfully done it acts as an icebreaker that gets people laughing and talking.

CONS:  If it's not skillfully done, this game can be obnoxious or just plain boring. Many people have played this game before, so I suggest talking to your entertainer to come up with a fun twist your group will enjoy.

3) Reward the Quick RSVPs.

One of the biggest complaints couples have before the wedding is guests who refuse to RSVP. With this giveaway idea you can award the centerpiece to your most prompt responders; it's good for a laugh as well as a subtle lesson in wedding etiquette.

Here's how to pull it off. As your RSVPs come in, keep track of the order. When you make your seating charts, put a sticker (a gold star would be appropriate) inside the place card of the person who sent in their RSVP first.

This was inspired by our bride and groom accountant couple. The announcement went something like this: "You've probably noticed that Bob and Sara are sticklers for detail and punctuality. (Pause for laughter.) They've decided to reward those of you who share their love for promptness. They kept track of who sent in their RSVPs first. Take a look inside your place card. If you have a gold star, congratulations! You were the first at your table to RSVP and you get to take home the centerpiece tonight."

PROS: If it fits your personality, the crowd will love it. This also gives your guests a reason to RSVP faster next time around.

CONS: Who wants to track the order of RSVPs? If spread sheets ain't your thing, ditch this idea.

4) A General Announcement.

If you can't decide how to give away your centerpieces, simply have your entertainer make a general announcement at the end of the night that guests are welcome to take them home. Then let your family and friends duke it out.

PROS: It doesn't get simpler than this.

CONS: Not very exciting unless a fight breaks out. Sometimes people are drunk and don't listen quite so well at the end of the night. Your centerpieces might not get picked up...and some people may stumble out the door with one tucked under each arm.

5) On the Sly.

If you want certain people to take home the centerpieces (usually mothers, grandmothers and aunts) let them know on the sly when you visit the tables. This keeps it out of the public eye and lets you give them to specially chosen people.

PROS: You get to award the centerpieces to whoever you want.

 

 

CONS: You have to remember to tell them...which means adding another task on your wedding day to do list.

6) Bride and Groom Trivia.

Come up with a list of trivia questions with multiple choice answers about you and your fiancé. Hold a competition for the centerpieces by going from table to table and asking those questions. The first person to answer a question correctly at each table gets to take home a centerpiece.

PROS: The right questions and answers can be really, really funny. This giveaway game is also totally unique and personal.

CONS: It takes more work to pull off. You also need to have an entertainer who is skilled enough to keep the pace fast and fun.

7) The LEFT and RIGHT Story.

Have your entertainer instruct guests to pass a napkin to the right when he says the word RIGHT and to the left when he says the word LEFT as he reads a story. It starts out simple, but soon the story has your guests passing right and left so quickly that they will be laughing in confusion and amusement.

There are several story variations on the internet. It works best if you tell a story about the two of you, inserting personal details and jokes as appropriate. Check out this version of the Left/Right Story for ideas.

PROS: Totally personal, unique and fun.

CONS: Again, it's more complicated to plan and execute. Your entertainer also has to be game.

8) Pass the Poem.

Print a copy of the poem for each table. Have your entertainer read it aloud and ask your guests to follow the instructions as they pass it around. The last person gets to take home the centerpiece.

You can use the version that was originally written for a baby shower or create your own.

Pros – Fun, unique and interactive.

Cons – A little complicated. You have to write the poem and/or type it up for each table, plus get your entertainer to give the instructions.

9) Donate Them.

When the wedding is through, recruit one of your guests to collect them and drop them off at a nearby nursing home or hospital the next day.

PROS: It's charitable and you get to feel good about yourself. Plus, those centerpieces became a tax deductible write off!

CONS: You have to decide which of your guests to saddle with the responsibility of transporting the centerpieces, or be bothered with doing it yourself.

10) Birthday or Anniversary Presents.

Have your entertainer announce that you would like to give the centerpiece to the person at each table whose birthday or anniversary is closest to today's date.

PROS: Easy to do. It's a sweet way to acknowledge special events.

CONS: Your guests will need to chat amongst themselves to figure it out. There also isn't much suspense.

There you have it! 10 different ways to give away your wedding centerpieces. Mix and match for maximum effect and above all...have fun with it!

Have an idea I didn't mention? Leave me a comment.